HOW TO KNOW IF THE LADY YOU ARE SITTING NEXT TO LOVES OR HATES YOU

HOW TO KNOW IF THE LADY YOU ARE SITTING NEXT TO LOVES OR HATES YOU WITHOUT ASKING IF SHE DOES

Does She love me?

This article was written with reference to how to know if the person sitting next to you hates you. So with this you are steps into knowing if the person sitting next to you hates you. You can make this analysis simply by inviting the person and engaging him or her in a conversation and watching out for these signs viz:

1. They try to distance themselves from you...

This is something we can all notice

When you’re not interested in being around or talking to someone, distancing yourself — whether purposely or subconsciously — is usually what happens first.

2. Their arms are always crossed when they are around you..

One of the biggest signs that someone may not be too fond of you is when they cross their arms when they are around you..

Crossing arms may be a sign that someone is closed off or not wanting to receive what you're giving to them.

Whereas arms that are open show that you are open to receiving what they are "giving"

3. There is a lack of eye contact

It's usually seen as disrespectful when people look away from you while talking.

Many times, people who are not fond of you have a difficult time keeping eye contact. They often seem disconnected or distracted while speaking or engaging with you..

This shows a lack of respect and attention

4. Everything seems forced.

Everyone knows that the best friendships and relationships are the ones that are genuine.

If any situation you're in or conversation you're having feels forced, then that may be a sign that the person may not like you.

The person simply doesn't want to "connect" with you

5. Their feet are pointed away from you.

According to body language expert and author Steven Keyl, there are more signs than just lack of eye contact and the crossing of arms. Things can get a little deeper than that to prove that someone dislikes you.

"Look at their feet to see where they are pointed. Feet will always point away from an undesired object,"

"If they are not interested in our conversation, their feet will shift away from us. Their feet may also point toward other people in the room whose conversation they would prefer, or perhaps they will just align with the nearest exit!"

6. Their torsos (trunk) are also pointed away from you.

Just like Keyl said that someone’s feet pointing away from you is a sign, so is noticing that their midsection is, too.

"We expose our torsos to those who make us feel good, but will immediately turn to the side when someone we dislike approaches," Keyl said. "In fact, we use the descriptive phrase of a shunning, 'turning our back' on someone, to describe negativity toward that person. As with the feet, watching the torsos of people in a group will give a good indicator who has negative or positive feelings for us."

7. Surprisingly, too much eye contact can mean they dislike you, too.

Too much eye contact can signal someone dislikes you. It is common knowledge that uninterested people will look in any other direction for something or someone more interesting, Since we know looking away will be interpreted as rude, people overcompensate by making too much eye contact, to ensure they aren’t perceived as inhospitable. So if someone is 'overly engaged' in your story, they may just not be as captivated by you as you think.

So they are basically pretending to be interested or faking interest at that point.

8. They are always checking the time

Ever been in a situation where you're discussing with someone, and the person is always checking the time like he's waiting for you to "do fast and go"😂😪

Annoying right?

It's not just a sign of dislike. It's also a sign of disrespect.

It means they may be bored by you, or they're counting down the minutes till they won't have to see you anymore.

9. They appear closed off

Just like we said earlier, things like crossing arms, being rigid, or leaning away are nonverbal behaviours that indicate that the person is uncomfortable around you, and putting up a wall...

This is often coupled with /accompanied by an apparent lack of interest

Finally...

10. Facial expressions are always key.

From their facial expressions you can see things like scorn and disinterest, which all indicate the fact that they don't like you...

Also, when you approach someone, and they start "squeezing face", I guess you wouldn't need anyone to tell you that they clearly don't like you...

You could also find them "eyeing" you from time to time with disgust...

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